How to forget the person you love deeply ?

How to forget the person you love deeply?

Yeah , I know somewhere and sometimes this question rolls up your mind . It's not easy to forget someone you were deeply in love with but time is the greatest dealer. 
Eventually, with time and healing, you'll be able to appreciate the good parts of the relationship without feeling pain. 

 Many sites will ask you to do stuffs like -
 
• Start by writing down all the reasons you love the person.

• Remind yourself of the reasons why it probably wouldn't work.

• Distract yourself with other activities. ...

• Be honest with them about your intention to leave them alone.

• Avoid constantly checking in on them.

• Replace the future scenarios in your head.


But no I won't , here I am going to concentrate on what is really needed and i.e Self Love and Emotional Control .

Now  the question is -
 "What is this self love , off course we all love ourselves " .




Yes off course we all love ourselves but when you are in love the opposite person seems to be more of you , you matter them , you love them more then yourself and when they leave you are shattered . Self Love is keeping yourself first , your happiness first , your aims , your goals first .

Self Love is the key and best step to get out of these situations ,once you start loving yourself  you are sufficient for you . Start spending time with yourself, try to understand yourself , try to find happiness in you with small things . Do things that make you happy -  listen to music , paint , cook , go out , etc . The best place to spend time is NATURE , it will heal you to an extent . Once you will start loving yourself no pain is gonna matter you or shatter you , you will be enough.



Emotional Control is the second most important key , sometimes you might feel like " let me make some compromise and move back to that person " , here you need to control your emotions because you might regret for your decision . You should be more concerned about yourself first that you matter , your emotions matter not them.

The day you'll understand your important , that the person who left is not the one, if they loved you they would never leave . 

Be strong and start loving yourself .

Time is the best healer thou you are - you yourself gonna make it someday.


Hope this will help you .


Written by - Aayushi Singh.





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